Discover Your ConneXion Before You Invest Your Time or Your Heart.
The compatibility assessment for dating, friendships, family, and professional relationships. See how two people align in communication, intimacy, emotional needs, conflict style, and relationship expectations — in about 5 minutes.
No credit card required • First ConneXion Check included • Private by design
Every Important Relationship Follows a Pattern.
Romantic Relationships
Know where you naturally align—and where friction is most likely to emerge.
Friendships
See why some friendships feel effortless while others become draining.
Family Relationships
Recognize patterns in spouses, parents, children, siblings, and extended family members.
Work & School Relationships
Learn how communication styles influence teamwork, leadership, conflict, and collaboration.
Reveal Your ConneXion With Anyone Who Matters.
Because insight changes relationships.
Send a private invitation to someone who matters to you. Complete your assessments independently and see where you naturally align, where your needs differ, and how those differences shape communication, conflict, intimacy, and long-term compatibility — before investing your time, your heart, or your future.
See the Pattern. Understand the Person. Strengthen the Relationship.
The XY ConneXion® assessment reveals how two people naturally align in communication, intimacy, emotional needs, conflict style, and relationship expectations—so you can stop guessing and start seeing the people who matter most more clearly. Your answers remain private, and only the insights you choose to share are visible to the person you invite.
How XY ConneXion® Works
Take the Assessment
Answer brief questions about your communication, connection, intimacy, conflict, and relational needs.
Invite Someone
Send a private ConneXion link to a romantic interest, friend, classmate, coworker, family member, or partner.
Compare Your ConneXion
See your ConneXion Score, alignment areas, growth areas, and personalized relationship insights.
Build Better Relationships
Use your results to start better conversations, reduce misunderstandings, and deepen connection.
What's Your ConneXion Type?
Discover which of the four Interactive Relationship Personalities best reflects how you naturally connect with others.
Needs deep talks and close emotional connection.
Loves to talk it out, keeps emotional space.
Bonds through closeness more than words.
Values independence and quiet companionship.
The letters represent your communication and intimacy needs — and help explain how two people may naturally connect, complement one another, or experience friction.
Real Stories. Real ConneXions.
How people used XY ConneXion® to see the relationships that matter most clearly.
"My fiancé and I thought we had different values. XY ConneXion® showed us we actually communicated completely differently. It suggested we acquire better communication skills and changed how we approached every disagreement."
"I sent an XY ConneXion® invitation to my daughter. Within minutes we finally understood why we'd been misunderstanding each other for years."
"The XY ConneXion® report explained arguments we'd been having for over a year and indicated that we had a deficit in Conflict Resolution Skills."
"My teenage son and I stopped taking each other personally after seeing our XY ConneXion® results."
"My business partner and I uncovered why meetings kept ending in frustration — the same conflict was repeating in a loop."
Choose Your ConneXion Plan
Start free. Upgrade when you want more ConneXion Checks and deeper compatibility insights for the people who matter most.
Free
Start your first ConneXion
- Full ConneXion Assessment
- Your Personal Relationship Profile
- 1 Free ConneXion Check
- Results Saved for One Year
Connect
For everyday ConneXions
- Everything in Free
- 5 ConneXion Checks per month
- Saved ConneXion History
- Basic Compatibility Reports
Connect Plus
PopularMost popular
- Everything in Connect
- 15 ConneXion Checks per month
- Expanded Compatibility Reports
- Advanced Relationship Insights
Family Plan
For the whole household
- 50 ConneXion Checks
- Family Relationship Reports
- Parent-Child ConneXion Options
- Parenting Course Access
- Family Dashboard
Host a ConneXion Event
Bring people together through meaningful ConneXions.
ConneXion Events help participants explore communication styles, relationship patterns, compatibility, and shared strengths within a group.
Perfect for
Custom group experiences available.
Common questions
Is XY ConneXion® just another dating app?+
No. XY ConneXion® can be used for dating, friendships, family relationships, classmates, coworkers, roommates, and partners. Dating is one use case, but the platform is designed to help people see any important relationship clearly.
What is an XY ConneXion® Score?+
Your XY ConneXion® Score shows how two people align across communication, intimacy, conflict risk, and relationship skills — so you can see where you're compatible before investing your time or your heart.
Can I use it with a friend or family member?+
Yes. You can invite anyone you want to know better.
Is my data private?+
Yes. Your answers are private, and results are only shared in the ConneXion report with the person you choose to invite.
How long does it take?+
Most users complete the assessment in about 5 minutes.
See Every Relationship Through a New Lens.
Whether you're dating, building friendships, strengthening family, or improving teamwork, ConneXion helps you see the people who matter most clearly.
Take the Free AssessmentNo credit card required • First ConneXion Check included • Private by design